Open Question: Is he cheating? What should I do now?
I've been dating a guy for 6 wks, things have been great. we talk everyday and look each other most of the week. but i noticed he never texts me or seems to want to hang out sun. nights. i haven't worried because after every, we need our possess space, but something made me wonder about this last sun. and so i did something bad...i know! i snooped!..he keeps a little notebook with his expenses in it and i kinda peeked at it. he told me he had been painting in his studio every sun. night, but in the book it said: mar. 7th $20 poker and $17 pizza. we have friends that we play poker with sometimes so i asked him, "hey did you receive to take a break and play poker on sun?" and he said no. also...$17 worth of pizza is definitely pizza for two. he always buys 2 slices for himself and he doesn't ever buy a whole pie. he is such a creature of habit, and so now i wonder is he dating someone else that he only sees on sundays? why did he lie about poker he could have said he played, we play every the time? i left his home vexed and mentioned that he never seemed to be around on sun. nights, but he says he doesn't understand why I'm being weird. I am afraid to tell him that i snooped but i'm livid that he lied about sun. i feel like dumping him, because i don't know if i can trust someone who is going to lie about stuff like that. i also know that a girl was at his studio around that time because he mentioned a female pal made a comment about his recent painting. every signs point to things not right. arrrggh i really like him, but can't deal with being deceived or him dating other girls. what do i do????????